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Feminism

The dictionary defines feminism as the advocacy of equal rights based on the equality of sexes. 
I believe only in the first part of the sentence that yes we deserve equal rights.
I believe that women are beautiful, intelligent, layered, complex creatures, men are.....with them.
My definition of feminism is not letting a woman be what a man can be, it's letting a woman be whatever a woman wants to be. To limit a woman to the achievements of a man is to ask a scientist become a monkey.
So during an interaction with a woman, I asked her, how to be a feminist? She said, don't think about how feminist you are, think how do you consider yourself as a man, that's what made me realise that why does every guy wants to be the 'man'? Why can't we just be males and they females? Being the 'man' is so tiring at times. There is no harm in a male and female to share charge at all times, like maybe cook sometimes? How bad would it get? More than half of human masculinity is on absurd. See even if one would be the 'man' you won't be man enough for the society because there are varying standards of everyone. Someone would want you to not cook, someone would want you to ogle endlessly, is it really worth it? Trust me it isn't. So let's just be males!
But now the questions would come
1. How to help make people understand this? Because come on, we all have heard famous personalities saying this in Public, that the Girl was asking for 'it'
2. In my country there is a major problem where a girl is not made to study or is killed even before she is born once you determine the gender.
I propose the below 2 steps for the problems listed above:
1. People who ogle at girls and think they are asking for 'it', make them wear piece by piece of all the female outfits which make them think this way, including the 5 inch heels for a month. So that the next time, they see a girl in a club, instead of starting to read to between the lines of whether she is asking for 'it', the only thought that crosses their mind is, "Oh my, her feet must hurt bad man!" And "She would be holding her breath for so long man, it's so uncomfortable!"
2. Adopt the Club Stag non entry rule in schools, so every male admitted into the school should have a corresponding female admitted as well (1 + 1) and no stags allowed. Going by this more than half of our male population would remain illiterate and uneducated, how awesome is that!
Now take these people in make an army, like the United States has a 'Quick Response' team, we should have a 'Worst Response' team. Like whenever a country crosses paths with India, we send in the 'Worst Response' team and ask them to do nothing there and just.... EXIST in that country. After a while, they will all start doing illegal activities or illegal hoarding or human trafficking or spitting in public or shitting on monuments. Just distracting the opponents and then the actual army goes in and kicks ass!
Or maybe if we don't want any of the above, we should just listen.
It's been a long time that we men have spoken, shouted hard, but it hasn't yielded any results, so maybe for a change, listen!
Cheers!





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