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Wanderer

My first blog post (hope you like it)
Dictionary refers to wanderer as a person who is unsure of what he wants in life. Basically it means a person who does not have a fixed aim/goal. But I would love to differ on that as according to me a wanderer is a person who has many goals but moves on to the next goal only after completing the previous one. Such is the life of a wanderer that there is no rest, no contemplating over things, its just moving from one goal to another, doing things, achieving goals. Having many goals does bring out the many facets u have, also it gives you an opportunity to hone your skills, develop your thought process & helps understand one's capabilities.
One should have many goals in life & should strive to achieve them. Do the things you want to do. Do the things your heart wants you to do. Do not be bound by expectations, don't have any expectations unless its from your own self. Keep yourself happy, because if you are happy you give happiness to others- this is the essence of life. Its you, you & yourself that matter at the end of the day. Go all out, live your life, fall in love, commit mistakes, learn from them, have many goals, have many thoughts, achieve those goals after all its your life & its only once. Make your life live & live the life you want, be a WANDERER.




P.S. being a wanderer is a good thing till you accept my definition of it.

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